Monday, December 18, 2006

The Power "Rejection" (Or The Word "No") Has Over You Comes From You

By Ron Balagot

It's true.

People may have the power to say "No" to your requests (by expressing it to you in some way), but the power to give it meaning is yours. Its meaning is in "your" hands.

Yes, you've always had the ability to "reject people's rejection" (the ability to suck the life force out of people's rejection). You may have just forgotten.

(The truth is, if you just stop to think about it, you’ll realize how silly it is to allow a "two-letter word" like "No" to affect you in negative ways...to let it stop you from continuing to ask for what you want. That's all it is...a "two-letter word." It has no power of its own except what you give it.)

The key is to "always be aware" of this power you have.

The next time someone rejects one of your requests, be aware of what's “really” happening. Then act accordingly.

Stay empowered by saying something like “wrong door...next” (“wrong door” could mean that you're either asking the wrong person or you're asking in the wrong way).

Then simply knock on the next door...and then the next one...until the right one opens...or until you get what you want.

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